I am guessing that at least one of those terms was accurate? Most gaijin I have the opportunity to observe are quite urasai!
On that I agree as well. What makes matters even worse then is the "guilty" by association mentality that some Japanese have as well.

Some people may see that as my making their points for them with a comment like that but I see it as an opportunity to educate Japanese people to the fact that not "all" gaijin are the same. I have had many a lively discussion about this "differences" in culture discussions.

To some here that often come across with negative comments about this subject I would suggest they attempt to look at things with a bit of optimism instead of always being so pessimistic.