The bottom line is, no matter how much freedom you do or don't give your partner, they're going to do what they're going to do.
It's ok to meet one's ex-boyfriend/girlfriend from time to time
It's ok to have lunch/dinner at a restaurant with another man/woman
It's ok to do activities (sports, karaoke...) with another man/woman
It's ok to go to nightclubs without one's partner
It's ok to have sex with somebody else
It's ok to travel (and share the same hotel room) with another man/woman
None of these is ok while in a relationship !
The bottom line is, no matter how much freedom you do or don't give your partner, they're going to do what they're going to do.
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