I didn't expect a fancy wedding ring and I didn't actually want one, but my husband did buy me a beautiful diamond ring from Tiffany's. I have never worn it and it sits in the original box on our dresser. I get "presents" more than "I love you's". It bothered me, but now I understand that that is his way of expressing his feelings. I told him he doesn't have to, but I think he is more comfortable that way. We all have different ways to express affection. I don't think anyone should go "broke" though with gift giving and buying!