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  • he/she cheated on you

    12 15.38%
  • he/she loved someone else (but didn't do anything) and not you

    4 5.13%
  • he/she loved both you and someone else

    13 16.67%
  • he/she loved someone else of the same sex (homosexual love) in addition to you [or opposite sex for those already in homosexual relationship]

    18 23.08%
  • he/she didn't love you (but not anybody else either), but liked you

    26 33.33%
  • he/she had sex with someone else, but continued to love you at the same time

    16 20.51%
  • he/she really didn't love or like you, but without hating you (just no feeling at all)

    5 6.41%
  • he/she hated you

    5 6.41%
  • Really can't make up my mind - case by case depending on the person and situation

    39 50.00%
  • Other (please specify)

    10 12.82%
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  1. #1
    Dog Youkai playaa's Avatar
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    Elizabeth, I have seen that situation plenty! I have friends all the time who come up and ask about your exact problem.
    "Kanpeki to chau, jinsei no shuushi
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    Danshaku Elizabeth's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by playaa
    Elizabeth, I have seen that situation plenty! I have friends all the time who come up and ask about your exact problem.
    Or some variation on it. I'd have to be totally clear on the other relationship to think of staying in a case exactly like that.

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    I would rather have my girl sleeping with another man and thinking about me ,not the vice versa.

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    Where I'm Supposed to Be kirei_na_me's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dream Time
    I would rather have my girl sleeping with another man and thinking about me ,not the vice versa.
    Yeah. Things can get complicated and that can happen even when the girl really doesn't want it(sleeping with someone else) to.

    That's why things really need to be taken on situation by situation basis.
    i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)

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    Quote Originally Posted by kirei_na_me
    Yeah. Things can get complicated and that can happen even when the girl really doesn't want it(sleeping with someone else) to.

    That's why things really need to be taken on situation by situation basis.
    I don't get it...why sleeping with another man if that's not what she wants?
    One of the most adventurous things left for us is to go to bed. For no one can lay a hand on our dreams....

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    Danshaku Elizabeth's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    I don't get it...why sleeping with another man if that's not what she wants?
    Yeah, any rationalization and hypocricy like that can only create distance between you. Best to keep things as simple and pure as possible.

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    yeah... why we must sleeping with woman/man, if we does not love each other.... its just give our energy unless..... is better if we know or love each other... so sex is become beautiful.........

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