Originally Posted by
jt9258
So experience is gained from visiting friends and family in Japan, who follow a
culture of Honne/Tatemai, where there real face may not be shown.
There may be some change, though I have yet to witness this change.
While many do not find the role of being a "housewife" attractive, many find it difficult to accept change, because they feel they have a role and responsibility within a marriage, and would feel guilty and lazy if they were expected to accept a lesser role, than what they regard as being normal, so they just stay single.
I feel it is wrong to think that only young Japanese women are not getting married, there many Japanese women of all ages who have never been married. And there still are Japanese women who will take a husband, because of peer pressure from family members, and these women are not happy, because they really did not want marriage.
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