For our Japanese readers : Things you should not say to Westerners

[FrustratedDave]

Chopsticks compliment:
"It's not that hard."
Language compliment:
"No, not really."

I am finding it hard to belive that you do actually like living here?

You have after all been living here for 10 years or more and should realise by now that compliments like these are part and parcel of Japan?